Building a Strong Relationship with Your Child’s Teacher: A Guide for Nannies and Child Carers

One of the most pivotal relationships in a child’s education is the one between their parents and their teacher. But when you’re a nanny or child carer, your relationship with that teacher can be equally important. Regular communication, cooperation, and a mutual respect for each other’s roles can significantly benefit the child’s educational journey. Here’s how you can build a strong relationship with your child’s teacher.

One of the most pivotal relationships in a child’s education is the one between their parents and their teacher. But when you’re a nanny or child carer, your relationship with that teacher can be equally important. Regular communication, cooperation, and a mutual respect for each other’s roles can significantly benefit the child’s educational journey. Here’s how you can build a strong relationship with your child’s teacher.

The Initial Introduction

Don’t underestimate the power of a strong first impression. Make a point to meet the teacher early in the school year. Your initial interaction doesn’t have to be a formal meeting; it can be as simple as a quick hello during drop-off time.

Regular Communication

A great way to keep the lines of communication open is through a shared communication book, emails, or through any apps that the school uses for parent-teacher communication. Always ensure you’re passing the information along to the parents as well.

Attend Parent-Teacher Conferences

If it’s acceptable within your job scope and the parents are comfortable with it, attend parent-teacher conferences. Your unique insights can provide a more holistic understanding of the child’s needs and strengths.

Be Proactive

If you notice changes in the child’s behavior or academic performance, reach out to the teacher. Your observations can offer valuable perspectives that the teacher might not be aware of.

Share Milestones and Achievements

The teacher will undoubtedly appreciate knowing about any significant milestones or achievements that happen outside of school hours. This information can also help them to better understand and educate the child.

Mutual Respect

Maintain a respectful and professional demeanor in all interactions. Remember, you both want what’s best for the child, and a cooperative attitude will go a long way.

Be Supportive

Teachers appreciate it when parents and caregivers reinforce what is being taught in school. Whether it’s good manners, study habits, or specific academic or behavioral goals, your support is invaluable.

End-of-Year Gratitude

At the end of the school year, a simple ‘thank you’ note can make a teacher feel appreciated and pave the way for positive relations the next school year.

Building a strong relationship with your child’s teacher can be incredibly beneficial for everyone involved, most importantly, the child. It takes a village to raise a child, and teachers and nannies are an integral part of that village.


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Back to School: How to Support Your Child as They Transition to a New Year

It’s back-to-school time for children all over the UK next week. Whilst a lot of children find starting, or going back to school very exciting, moving into a different year can be difficult for some children, and moving to a different school can be even harder.

We’ve put together our top tips to help you support your transitioning child to ensure a smooth start to the new school year!

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5 school skills you need to know

The end of the summer holidays is fast approaching and for many 4 year olds this means the start of their first year at big school. Whether they’ve been at nursery full time, attended some form of preschool or been at home, the transition to Reception can be a huge step. We’ve asked Rachel, a teacher with 11 years of experience welcoming new starters, for her take on the top 5 skills a 4 year old needs to know.

Be able to dress themselves

“Most 4 year olds can put on their own coat, but they might struggle with an unfamiliar zip or buttons. Likewise they can put on their shoes but new types of fastening can really slow them down. If your 4 year old can’t dress independently you should start encouraging them to do that right now and if you haven’t already bought those school shoes or a new coat don’t put it off. They will need some practice before the big day. Children who can’t do this by themselves really hold the whole class back and end up frustrated before class even begins.”

Be able to listen and follow instructions

“A lot of the first part of the term is spent helping children listen and follow the directions the adults in the classroom give. A child who can keep quiet and who can follow two-tier instructions such as ‘take your shoes off and sit on the mat’ is going to have a much easier time and a more positive experience of those early school days than one who wanders around lost because they didn’t listen or ends up getting told off because they sat on the mat with their shoes on. This also builds concentration, which is key to future success.”

Know when they need to the toilet

“Children often come to school dry but not fully independent. They still rely on someone to nudge them into going. When you have 30 children in a class that just isn’t possible and inevitably accidents happen. You can minimise that by making sure that your child is aware of the sensations of a full bladder or bowel and that they know they need to act on that.”

Be able to wipe their bottom and wash their hands

“Taking care of their own hygiene is something small children find quite hard, but it’s really, really important. We can’t spend all our time wiping bottoms, and stomach bugs and other nasties spread like wildfire in reception, which is probably linked to children who don’t wash their hands before returning to class.”

Be able to recognise their own name

“People are often surprised that I don’t put this first. In fact this is a useful skill, but it’s not essential. It’s far more important that children are physically independent, because that takes a lot of time and effort to teach them, which we just don’t have. But if a child can recognise their name on the first day they can find their peg, and their cubby or their drawer, and it gives them a sense of belonging. It also speeds up those transitions at the beginning of the day, between breaks and class-time, and between certain activities. And it means a child has made a good start on letter recognition and they’ll engage with literacy much more readily if they feel connected to the letters.”

The ultimate back-to-school list

Just in case you’re in a last-minute panic here’s a ticklist of the things you need to buy before school starts again:

□  Uniform (shirts or polo shirts; jumpers or cardigans; shorts, trousers, skirts or pinafores; tie; blazer; fleece; cap or hat; eating or art overalls)

□  School shoes

□ Socks or tights

□ Name labels

□ Sports kit (shorts; t-shirt; tracksuit; socks; plimsolls or trainers; swimming costume; swim hat; towel)

□ Winter coat

□ Pac-a-mac

□ Warm hat, scarf and gloves Top tip: Buy ahead now so when there’s a cold snap you aren’t surprised

□ Book bag or rucksack

□ Pencil case

□ Pens

□ Pencils

□ Coloured pencils

□ Pencil sharpener

□ Rubber

□ Ruler

□ Glue sticks

□ Scissors

□ Lunchbox

□ Water bottle

□ Thermos flask

□ Food for packed lunch

□ Equipment for extra-curricular activities (musical instrument and music bag; football or rugby boots