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Navigating Pregnancy as a Nanny in the UK: A 2023 Guide

Pregnancy is an exciting time, but it also brings a host of questions, especially for nannies working in the UK. Understanding your rights and responsibilities is key to a smooth journey. Let’s explore what you need to know about pregnancy as a nanny in 2023.

When to Inform Your Employers?

Legally, you must notify your employers of your pregnancy by the 25th week. You’ll receive a MATB1 form from your midwife around 20 weeks for this purpose. However, many nannies choose to inform their employers earlier, often post the 12-week scan. Early disclosure can facilitate risk assessments for your role and ensure you receive paid time off for antenatal care.

What Does a Risk Assessment Entail?

Given the varied nature of a nanny’s job, risk assessments can differ. For pregnant nannies, considerations might include the physical strain of lifting children or exposure to infectious diseases.

Continuing Work During Pregnancy

Nannies can certainly continue working throughout their pregnancy. Your employer is required to make reasonable adjustments to your role to accommodate your pregnancy.

Maternity Leave Regulations

You can initiate your maternity leave any time post the 29th week of pregnancy. The commencement of maternity leave may also be triggered by the birth of your baby, a stillbirth post the 24th week, or pregnancy-related sickness after the 36th week.

Maternity Pay for Nannies

If you meet the criteria (having worked for the family for at least 26 weeks by the 25th week of your pregnancy), you are entitled to 6 weeks at 90% of full pay, followed by 33 weeks at the statutory rate or 90% of your average weekly earnings, whichever is lower. Employers can generally reclaim these costs due to their status as small employers.

If you don’t qualify for SMP, you can claim Maternity Allowance, and your employer should provide form SMP1. If you have multiple jobs, you may be eligible for SMP from each employer.

Duration of Maternity Leave

You are entitled to 52 weeks of maternity leave, split into 26 weeks of Ordinary Maternity Leave and 26 weeks of Additional Maternity Leave. While you can choose to take less, a minimum of 2 weeks post-birth is mandatory.

Holiday Accrual and KIT Days

Your holiday accrual continues during maternity leave. You may also participate in up to 10 Keeping In Touch (KIT) days without affecting your SMP.

Job Security Post-Maternity Leave

Post Ordinary Maternity Leave, you have the right to return to your job under the same conditions. If you take Additional Maternity Leave, your employer must offer a similar role if your original job is unavailable.

Redundancy and Bringing Your Child to Work

You cannot be made redundant for being pregnant; that would be discriminatory. However, redundancy may occur if there’s a significant change in childcare needs during your leave. Additionally, nannies don’t inherently have the right to bring their child to work, but this can be negotiated with your employer.

In a nanny share situation, bringing your child to work would require registering as a childminder under the Children’s Act 1989.

Keeping Your Nanny Happy in 2023: Beyond the Festive Cheers

As we navigate through 2023, with its unique challenges and the festive season just around the corner, it’s an ideal time to reflect on how to maintain a joyful and productive relationship with your nanny. While grand gestures have their place, the true art of appreciation lies in the everyday acts of kindness and respect

Understanding RESPECT in the Nanny-Parent Relationship:

The acronym RESPECT stands for Rights, Earnings, Space, Professionalism, Expenses, Choices, and Time. These elements are foundational to a healthy working relationship. Particularly, being mindful of your nanny’s time – respecting their finish time is respecting their personal life. If you’re often late, consider adjusting and compensating for their extended hours.

Small Gestures, Big Impact:

Flexibility and Understanding: Life happens – a delayed train or a slow morning can affect anyone. Show understanding for the occasional late start and balance this with letting your nanny leave early now and then.
Personal Perks: Simple acts like offering a takeaway during babysitting nights, or access to your Netflix account can go a long way. If they love cooking, why not leave some cash for them to buy special ingredients?
Fair Sick Pay: Remember, nannies are just as prone to illness as anyone. Fair sick pay ensures they don’t suffer financially for something out of their control, especially if it’s a bug caught from the children.
Access to Household Amenities: If your nanny is a baking enthusiast and you have a top-notch mixer, let them use it. Similarly, if their washing machine breaks, offering yours is a gesture of goodwill.
Invitations to Family Events: Whether for work (with overtime pay) or as a guest, inviting your nanny to significant family events shows that you value them as part of your extended family.
Thoughtful Gifts and Recognition: On their birthday or during festive seasons, a thoughtful gift or a voucher from their favorite store can be deeply appreciated. Remember, personalized appreciation often holds more value than extravagant gifts.
Annual Reviews and Rewards: A yearly review of their performance is a good practice. If a pay raise isn’t feasible, consider other forms of appreciation, like extra holiday time or a heartfelt acknowledgment of their hard work.
Recommendations and Referrals: If your nanny is open to extra babysitting, recommending them to your friends can be a great help. And if not, guide your friends to reliable babysitting resources.
Daily Gratitude: Never underestimate the power of a simple ‘thank you.’ It’s a daily reminder that their efforts are seen and valued.

Conclusion:

In 2023, the key to a successful nanny-parent relationship lies in consistent, respectful, and empathetic interactions. Small, thoughtful actions can make a big difference in fostering a positive and mutually rewarding relationship.

Does my nanny need a pension?

The government’s pensions initiative, known as Auto Enrolment, requires all UK employers to automatically enrol any qualifying employees into a workplace pension scheme and make contributions towards that pension. As a UK nanny employer, you will need to enrol your nanny into a pension scheme if he or she qualifies.

Does my nanny qualify for a workplace pension?

If your nanny is aged between 22 years old and the State Pension Age and they earn £10,000 or above per year, then they do qualify for a workplace pension.

What will happen if I don’t offer my nanny a pension scheme?

If your nanny is eligible for a pension scheme and you fail to enrol them into one, or if you fail to pay pension contributions, you can be fined by The Pensions Regulator.

My nanny doesn’t qualify but still wants a pension, what should I do?

Your nanny still has the right to ‘opt in’ and join a pension scheme even if they do not qualify for a workplace pension. It is your responsibility to enrol them into a suitable scheme.

My nanny qualifies for a pension but doesn’t want one, what do I need to do?

It is a legal requirement for you to enrol your nanny into a pension scheme if they qualify for it, even if he or she doesn’t want one. Once your nanny is enrolled into a pension scheme, they can then choose to ‘opt out’ or ‘cease membership’ of the scheme.

If this is the first time you’ve heard about your Auto Enrolment and nanny employer pension duties, don’t worry! Nannytax provides a fully managed workplace pension service for their clients which means the Nannytax team of pension specialists can take this off your hands!

This blog was written by Nannytax, the award-winning and UK leading nanny payroll experts with 30 years experience.

Discover more about Nannytax here.

Which childcare provider is right for you?

As a parent, one of the most important decisions you will make is which childcare provider is right for your child. There are many different types of childcare providers available, each with its own unique benefits and drawbacks.

Here are some factors to consider when choosing a childcare provider:

Your child’s age and needs. Different childcare providers are better suited for different ages of children. For example, a childminder may be a good option for an infant, while a preschool may be a better fit for a preschooler.
Your family’s budget. Childcare costs can vary significantly from one provider to the next. Be sure to factor in the cost of childcare when making your decision.
Your family’s schedule. Some childcare providers offer full-time care, while others offer part-time care or drop-in care. Be sure to choose a provider that can accommodate your family’s schedule.
Your child’s temperament. Some children are more social and outgoing, while others are more shy and reserved. Choose a childcare provider that will provide your child with the right environment for their temperament.
Your family’s values. Some childcare providers have a more structured approach to learning, while others have a more play-based approach. Choose a provider that aligns with your family’s values.

Here are some of the different types of childcare providers available:

Childminders: Childminders are registered childcare providers who care for children in their own homes. They typically care for a small number of children, which can provide a more personalized experience.
Nurseries: Nurseries are larger childcare settings that are staffed by qualified early years practitioners. They typically offer a wider range of activities and facilities than childminders.
Preschools: Preschools are educational settings that provide early learning opportunities for children aged 3-5. They typically offer a structured curriculum that helps children develop their social, emotional, and cognitive skills.
Playgroups: Playgroups are informal settings where children can play and socialize with other children. They are typically run by volunteers and are a good option for children who are not yet ready for a structured learning environment.

Spooky Halloween

Oh boy, do we have a treat (no tricks here!) for you – autumn has wrapped us in its chilly embrace and that means one thing… Halloween is creeping up! 🎃👻 Whether you’re a fan of the drizzly weather or not, we’re here to sprinkle a bit of spooky magic and get you pumped for the most ghoulishly fun time of the year!

Here at Nannyjob, we might be wrapping up in last year’s coats and switching on those SAD lamps (yep, we feel you!), but we’re also buzzing with excitement for Halloween! So, grab your little monsters, witches, and superheroes – we’ve got some spooktacular ideas to make this Halloween a blast!

🎉 Monster Mash Bash at Home! 🎉

Why roam the streets when you can throw the coolest haunted house party right in your living room? Gather the kiddos and their pals for a night of eerie entertainment!

👻 Decor Galore: Transform your home into a haunted mansion with creepy streamers, skeleton buddies, and spider friends! Check out these wicked decorations from Silly Jokes!

🎃 Ghoulish Games:

Apple Bobbing: Classic and always a hit!
Wink Murder: Who’s the secret ghost?
Mummy Wrap: Grab that loo roll and wrap your friends up! Fastest mummy wins!
Pin the Tail on the Witch’s Cat: A spooky twist on an old favorite!
Halloween Scavenger Hunt: Indoor or outdoor, let’s hunt for treats!
Pass the Pumpkin: Fill a pumpkin with goodies and play just like pass the parcel.

🖌️ Costume Crafting & Face Painting Fiesta! 🖌️

Whether your little one wants to be a ghost, witch, skeleton, or something totally unique, we’ve got you covered!

🦇 Costume DIY:

Scary Spider: Black outfit and some stuffed tights for extra legs!
Grim Reaper: Black cloak, white face paint, and a cardboard scythe!
Walking Dead: Torn clothes, fake blood, and spooky makeup!

Check out Netmums for more wicked costume ideas!

🍬 Trick or Treating Adventure (With a Safe Twist!) 🍬

If you decide to brave the outdoors, make it a safe adventure! Keep a distance, maybe even incorporate a mask into the costume (superhero style!), and remember: no tricks, just treats!

👜 Don’t forget your decorated treat bag – get creative with bats, pumpkins, and witchy designs!

👻 Stay Spookily Safe & Share the Fun! 👻

Share your Halloween plans, costumes, and party pics with us on the Nannyjob Facebook page! We can’t wait to see how you’re making this Halloween a frightfully fun time!

What interview questions should I ask a nanny?

During a nanny interview, it’s important to get a clear understanding of who the nanny candidate is, if they’ll be a good fit for your family, and how capable they are of fulfilling your requirements.

We suggest you prepare a list of interview questions ahead of the interviews, so that you can cover everything you need to know! Here are some examples of the sort of questions you may want to ask:

Questions specific to the role

What is your approach to meal planning?
What qualities do you look for in a family to decide whether it’s a good fit?
Describe a typical day at work for you.

Questions about their nannying style

What do you think are the qualities needed to be a good nanny?
What is your approach to discipline?
What are your favourite activities to do with children?

Questions about their education and experience

How long have you worked as a nanny?
Do you have any childcare qualifications?
Are you Ofsted-registered?
And it’s good to ask a few personal questions!

Why did you decide to become a nanny?
What are your hobbies?

For more examples of nanny interview questions,click here.

This blog was written by Nannytax, the award-winning and UK leading nanny payroll experts with over 25 years experience.

Discover more about Nannytax here.

Exploring Cultures from Your Living Room: Activities & Crafts from Around the World

Traveling might be on hold for many of us, but exploring diverse cultures doesn’t have to be. There’s a whole world inside your living room waiting to be discovered through crafts, activities, and stories. Here are some delightful ways to journey around the world without stepping outside your door:

1. Japanese Origami:

Activity: Learn the ancient art of Japanese paper folding.

Materials: Square sheets of paper.

Guide: Start with basics like the crane or boat and gradually work up to more complex designs.

2. African Beadwork:

Activity: Create beautiful African-inspired bead jewellery.

Materials: Colourful beads, string, or thread.

Guide: Explore patterns from tribes such as the Zulu or Maasai and craft necklaces or bracelets.

3. Indian Rangoli:

Activity: Make a vibrant floor art using coloured sand or rice.

Materials: Coloured sand or rice, rangoli patterns.

Guide: Design symmetrical patterns on the floor, usually done during festivals.

4. Mexican Piñatas:

Activity: Build and decorate your own piñata.

Materials: Balloon, newspaper, flour, water, paint, and candies.

Guide: Make a paste from flour and water, layer newspaper strips dipped in the paste over a balloon, let dry, paint, and fill with candies.

5. Australian Aboriginal Dot Painting:

Activity: Craft a unique artwork inspired by indigenous Australians.

Materials: Canvas or paper, paint, cotton buds.

Guide: Using cotton buds, create intricate designs using only dots.

6. Italian Pizzelle Making:

Activity: Cook these traditional waffle cookies.

Materials: Pizzelle iron, ingredients for the batter (eggs, sugar, butter, flour, vanilla extract).

Guide: Mix ingredients, pour into a pre-heated pizzelle iron, and cook until golden.

These activities not only offer a fun pastime but also provide invaluable lessons about the world’s cultures. So put on some traditional music from each region, dive into the activity, and transport your family to another corner of the globe!

Building a Strong Relationship with Your Child’s Teacher: A Guide for Nannies and Child Carers

One of the most pivotal relationships in a child’s education is the one between their parents and their teacher. But when you’re a nanny or child carer, your relationship with that teacher can be equally important. Regular communication, cooperation, and a mutual respect for each other’s roles can significantly benefit the child’s educational journey. Here’s how you can build a strong relationship with your child’s teacher.

The Initial Introduction

Don’t underestimate the power of a strong first impression. Make a point to meet the teacher early in the school year. Your initial interaction doesn’t have to be a formal meeting; it can be as simple as a quick hello during drop-off time.

Regular Communication

A great way to keep the lines of communication open is through a shared communication book, emails, or through any apps that the school uses for parent-teacher communication. Always ensure you’re passing the information along to the parents as well.

Attend Parent-Teacher Conferences

If it’s acceptable within your job scope and the parents are comfortable with it, attend parent-teacher conferences. Your unique insights can provide a more holistic understanding of the child’s needs and strengths.

Be Proactive

If you notice changes in the child’s behavior or academic performance, reach out to the teacher. Your observations can offer valuable perspectives that the teacher might not be aware of.

Share Milestones and Achievements

The teacher will undoubtedly appreciate knowing about any significant milestones or achievements that happen outside of school hours. This information can also help them to better understand and educate the child.

Mutual Respect

Maintain a respectful and professional demeanor in all interactions. Remember, you both want what’s best for the child, and a cooperative attitude will go a long way.

Be Supportive

Teachers appreciate it when parents and caregivers reinforce what is being taught in school. Whether it’s good manners, study habits, or specific academic or behavioral goals, your support is invaluable.

End-of-Year Gratitude

At the end of the school year, a simple ‘thank you’ note can make a teacher feel appreciated and pave the way for positive relations the next school year.

Building a strong relationship with your child’s teacher can be incredibly beneficial for everyone involved, most importantly, the child. It takes a village to raise a child, and teachers and nannies are an integral part of that village.

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Back to School: Preparing Your Child for a Great Start

The end of the holidays often brings mixed feelings. For parents, it’s usually a time of relief. For kids, however, the notion of heading back to school can be a mix of both excitement and anxiety. As nannies and child carers, your role in this transitional period is crucial. Here are some helpful ways to make sure the kids you care for get off to a great start this academic year.

Setting a Routine

One of the most effective ways to prepare children for school is to get them back into a routine. Gradually shift bedtime and wakeup times to match the school schedule a week or two before the big day. This adjustment helps reset their internal clocks, making the first day much less of a shock.

School Supplies Shopping

Children are more likely to feel excited about school if they have new gear to show off. A fun day of shopping for school supplies can make a world of difference. Allow them to pick out some items; personalizing their school experience can offer a sense of control and excitement.

Emotionally Prepping Them

Talk to children about their feelings concerning the new school year. Address their fears and highlight the positives. Meeting new friends, learning new subjects, and participating in extracurricular activities are all experiences to look forward to.

School Tour

If it’s a new school, or even if the child is moving to a new grade, touring the school beforehand can alleviate first-day jitters. Familiarize them with the layout, show them their classroom, and introduce them to their teacher if possible.

Healthy Breakfasts

A good breakfast is the cornerstone of a productive school day. It can be a fun activity to sit down and plan out a week’s worth of healthy breakfasts that you can prepare together.

Roleplaying

For younger kids, playing ‘school’ can be a fun and educational way to prepare. Take turns being the teacher and the student, run through some basic activities, and explain what they can expect.

The Night Before

Make sure everything is ready the night before: clothes laid out, backpack packed, lunch made, etc. This will make the morning run much more smoothly and reduce any last-minute stress.

First Day Photo

Don’t forget to capture the moment. Taking a ‘first day of school’ photo can become a cherished annual tradition.

Preparing children for school isn’t just about buying supplies and setting bedtimes; it’s about equipping them emotionally, mentally, and physically for the challenges and opportunities ahead. And guess what? You’re perfectly placed to help make this happen.

Rainy Day Activities – Turning Gloom into Bloom

Rainy days don’t have to be gloomy, especially when it comes to kids! With some creativity, a little imagination, and a sprinkle of fun, you can turn those gloomy days into a time of joy and excitement. Here’s a guide for nannies, parents, and child carers to embrace rainy days and make them bloom with creativity.

1. Indoor Camping Adventure:

Set up a tent with blankets and cushions right in the living room. Create a fake campfire and gather around it for storytelling, songs, and s’mores made in the oven.

2. Craft Time:

Grab some paper, glue, scissors, and colors. Let the kids create their very own rainy day art, or perhaps some beautiful homemade cards for friends and family.

3. Kitchen Science Experiments:

Rainy days are perfect for scientific exploration. Try making homemade slime or a volcano eruption. Kids can learn science in a hands-on and fun way.

4. Movie Marathon:

Create a movie theater experience at home. Show a series of their favorite animated films, complete with popcorn and cozy blankets.

5. Dance Party:

Turn up the music and have a dance-off. It’s a fantastic way to get the kids moving and grooving even when stuck inside.

6. Indoor Obstacle Course:

Set up a mini obstacle course using pillows, chairs, and tables. Time each other and have a laugh as you navigate through.

7. Reading Time:

Create a cozy reading nook and explore new worlds together through books. Allow children to pick their favorite stories, and don’t forget to add some sound effects for extra fun!

Conclusion:

Rainy days don’t have to dampen the fun. With a little creativity, they can be transformed into an opportunity for learning, bonding, and joy.

So the next time raindrops hit the window, just remember: gloom can indeed turn into bloom. Happy rainy day adventures!